No no no, see, I belive that you ARE supposed tosearch through your offspring's room to find any and all secret writings, and when your actions are questioned, the "cover your tracks" reply is "I'm checking your spelling. I never see anything you write." even though if you really want to snoop into your child's life, what you should have done is to #1 let them know that you trust them, #2 not freak out when they tell you things, and finally, #3 not be the kind of parent that snoops around in their child's room! Then they'd be your best friend and they'd tell you all about their life any time! But it seems easier to be aloof, then try to find things out by snooping. AHHH